“Too often we colour our perception with other peoples’ pencils.”
─ Tim Winter
It is a common saying that
perception is reality but I believe that it is merely a subconscious
expectation of reality.
The biggest example can be that
of the realisation of a child that the glossy image of beauty and success that
they have always been shown is in real just an image, an illusion, is a big
shock. It’s almost like a betrayal. The child feels vulnerable and exposed. He
may think to himself that he has been deeply surrounded by lies all his life.
Huge lies. And yet, he has been taught not to lie, to be honest. And so, he
starts seeing everything around him, which has always been there, in a different
light.
I believe that people only see through
themselves; only hear through the filter of their own story. But, with gradual
learning, the passing of time and experience, it is possible to realize that
life is only as good as one makes it. All their lives, people are so busy in
conforming to accepted values and perceptions that they forget to make their
own perception, and make it their own reality.